Interview With a Teacher #8: Mrs. H

Oh my goodness, this interview really got to me. I’ve seen how much the pandemic has changed social behavior in middle schoolers, but it hadn’t occurred to me how little (if any) “normal” school years our elementary kids have had. It’s obvious how hard this teacher works based on her sub plans and her extra duties and her answers to questions #19 and #34, but it’s also clear how hard things are for her. Thank you, Mrs. H, for everything you do. Hang in there!

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A Note About These Interviews:

I taught seventh grade for almost twenty years and was constantly surprised at the difference between what friends, family, parents, neighbors, and community members imagined my job was like and what it actually was like. The few times I had the privilege of inviting a friend or family member to visit my classroom, they always left wide-eyed and exhausted. The purpose of these interviews is to allow the world a glimpse inside the lives of current educators. Now that I’ve quit teaching, I want to do what I can to support all the teachers still fighting the good fight, and I don’t want to forget what life is like inside a school.

All questions are optional. The teacher may write as much or as little as they want. If they don’t feel comfortable answering a question for any reason, they’re allowed to leave it blank or say “I prefer not to answer.” For confidentiality and privacy purposes, the name of the teacher’s school will not be published, and they may choose how they refer to themselves. (Full name, initials only, or even simply “Teacher.”) Participants have been asked to refrain from using student names or to change names. When describing student or parent interactions, they may be vague or change slight details to protect anonymity as long as the message/tone of the encounter stays the same.

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Interview With Mrs. H:

  1. In no more than three words, describe how you feel right now.

    Exhausted

  2. What is today’s date?

    October 9, 2022

  3. How old are you?

    37

  4. How many years (total) have you been teaching?

    16

  5. Have you ever taken a break from teaching? If so, why and for how long?

    The only break I have taken from teaching was maternity leave.

  6. What is your current salary?

    To be honest I’m not sure, I think around $60,000.

  7. Is there anything you would like to share about your personal life or family situation?

    I am a mom of toddler twins.

  8. In what city and state do you teach?

    North Dallas

  9. What grade(s) and subject(s) do you currently teach?

    4th Grade ELAR (English Language Arts and Reading)

  10. How many years have you been in your current teaching position?

    11

  11. How many conference periods do you have per day?

    1

  12. How many students do you teach total?

    45

  13. If you teach multiple classes, how many students are in your smallest class and your largest class?

    I have 22 in my smallest class, and 23 in my other class.

  14. On average, how many meetings do you have per week?

    At the very least 5. Some are during my conference period and others are after school.

  15. What other responsibilities do you have at school besides teaching your own classes? (For example: bus duty, cafeteria monitor, after school club, chaperone, committee member, team leader, coach, etc.)

    I have taken a step back this year, but in years past I have been the student council sponsor, the lead mentor, mentor, year book sponsor, and spelling bee sponsor. I am currently on the PBIS (Positive Behavioral Interventions and Supports) committee, literacy chair person, team lead, and mentor teacher to two new teachers.

  16. Are you compensated for any of your extra duties?

    I get a $250 stipend for being a mentor.

  17. When was the last time you took a day off?

    I had to take a day off for a doctors appointment in September.

  18. Describe the reason for your absence and the process you went through in order to take the day off.

    In order to be out for a planned absence I had to find a sub prior to the absence being approved by admin. This sounds easy enough, but due to a sub shortage it’s almost impossible to find someone. I had to create lesson plans (separate from the plans I had already, as I was told my plans were asking too much). I guess asking a sub to teach is no longer acceptable. I had to create and print a split list (a list showing what other teachers’ classes students would be sent to) in case the sub didn’t show or wasn’t able to handle the kids and needed to leave.

  19. Describe a positive interaction you’ve had with a student this year.

    I have a student who built a reputation for himself last year. He isn’t the kid everyone hopes to get in their class if you know what I mean. He has been amazing for me this year and is even my helper. He told me that I’m the only teacher that’s ever been nice to him.

  20. Describe a challenging interaction you’ve had with a student this year.

    I have students that haven’t been in school since 1st grade due to Covid. Their social skills are lacking and they struggle to express themselves. This leads to outbursts that are harmful to themselves, others, and the learning environment. Students throw desks and chairs. I even had a student knock over my bookshelves and throw my classroom library all over the room.

  21. Describe a positive interaction you’ve had with a parent this year.

    I have not had a single parent thank me or send even a note of support.

  22. Describe a challenging interaction you’ve had with a parent this year.

    The biggest struggle I am having with parents in general is a lack of support. I have 0 parent involvement. I set up evening conferences in September to allow parents an opportunity to meet with me and discuss goals for their students. I had 2 parents show up.

  23. Describe a positive interaction you’ve had with a coworker or administrator this year.

    My team is amazing. We work hard to support each other and find things to laugh about daily.

  24. Describe a challenging interaction you’ve had with a coworker or administrator this year.

    Our campus is full of new teachers that don’t know what they are doing. It’s not completely their fault, but when I try to offer help or advice they want me to fix the problem for them. It seems like hard work is a thing of the past.

  25. What’s the funniest or weirdest thing that’s happened at school this year?

    It has to be that we have recess from 11:50-12:10 everyday. But on Wednesdays the city tests the tornado sirens that happen to be on school property. Every single Wednesday when the sirens go off, our students run across the playground covering their ears TOWARDS the siren! We crack up every time.

  26. What time did you arrive at work today?

    7:15 A.M.

  27. What time did you leave work today? If you are still at work, what time did you leave yesterday?

    4:15 P.M.

  28. Describe your lunch today. (Length, food, location, what you did while eating, etc.)

    Today I ate lunch during my planning because I had to help resolve a conflict in the cafeteria.

  29. Describe one success you experienced today.

    My students did really well on the text structure mini quiz. It’s a hard thing for 4th graders, but the hand motions and song I taught them must have really helped.

  30. Describe one challenge you experienced today.

    A parent didn’t pick up their student until 4, because they needed to run some errands.

  31. What time did you complete this survey?

    8:33 P.M.

  32. How satisfied are you with your current job? (1 = not at all satisfied, 5 = very satisfied)

    3

  33. As of right now, do you plan to continue teaching next year?

    I’m not sure. If I do, I will be looking for a new school.

  34. What’s the best thing about being a teacher?

    The relationships that you build with students. I have students that have went off to college that still keep in touch. I love getting their emails.


    Teacher, I want to tell you something, and I want you to listen. You are amazing. You are creative and smart and hardworking and beautiful. You are valued by those who are paying attention, and you deserve so much more than you receive from society. You are a superhero, and the world is a better place with you in it. Thank you for everything you do for your students, your community, and your fellow teachers. I appreciate you. Now, close your eyes and take three long, deep breaths, then open your eyes.
  35. In no more than three words, describe how you feel right now.

    Seen and heard

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Interview With a Teacher #7: Ms. L

A big thank you to Ms. L for being my first elementary school participant! Perhaps elementary school teachers are the busiest of them all and that’s why they don’t have time to complete surveys? It’s possible. I don’t know how elementary teachers do it. The lower grades were always too huggy and sticky for me. But Ms. L obviously brings a large amount of positivity and patience to the classroom each day. I can tell she’s loved by her students.

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A Note About These Interviews:

I taught seventh grade for almost twenty years and was constantly surprised at the difference between what friends, family, parents, neighbors, and community members imagined my job was like and what it actually was like. The few times I had the privilege of inviting a friend or family member to visit my classroom, they always left wide-eyed and exhausted. The purpose of these interviews is to allow the world a glimpse inside the lives of current educators. Now that I’ve quit teaching, I want to do what I can to support all the teachers still fighting the good fight, and I don’t want to forget what life is like inside a school.

All questions are optional. The teacher may write as much or as little as they want. If they don’t feel comfortable answering a question for any reason, they’re allowed to leave it blank or say “I prefer not to answer.” For confidentiality and privacy purposes, the name of the teacher’s school will not be published, and they may choose how they refer to themselves. (Full name, initials only, or even simply “Teacher.”) Participants have been asked to refrain from using student names or to change names. When describing student or parent interactions, they may be vague or change slight details to protect anonymity as long as the message/tone of the encounter stays the same.

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Interview With Ms. L:

  1. In no more than three words, describe how you feel right now.

    happy, sticky(it’s humid), tired

  2. What is today’s date?

    September 18, 2022

  3. How old are you?

    48

  4. How many years (total) have you been teaching?

    23

  5. Have you ever taken a break from teaching? If so, why and for how long?

    Yes, I took a break during the pandemic.

  6. What is your current salary?

    $58,000 and some change

  7. Is there anything you would like to share about your personal life or family situation?

    My husband and I have lived in Austin for 25 years. We have one child, a dog, and a bunny.

  8. In what city and state do you teach?

    Austin, TX

  9. What grade(s) and subject(s) do you currently teach?

    5th Grade Science

  10. How many years have you been in your current teaching position?

    This year, I am teaching fifth grade. I have taught this grade level and academic area before, however that was 11 years ago.

  11. How many conference periods do you have per day?

    Tricky question. Our district is trying a new schedule where students go to P.E. each day. This means that some days, I get two 45 minute planning periods, some days one. About once a week, due to meetings, I do not get a planning period.

  12. How many students do you teach total?

    68

  13. If you teach multiple classes, how many students are in your smallest class and your largest class?

    My largest class has 24 students, my smallest class has 22.

  14. On average, how many meetings do you have per week?

    I have 3-4 a week.

  15. What other responsibilities do you have at school besides teaching your own classes? (For example: bus duty, cafeteria monitor, after school club, chaperone, committee member, team leader, coach, etc.)

    Besides teaching my three classes, this year I am the team leader and am on the science and health committees. Elementary teachers also monitor students during recess time and stay with students during after school dismissal. After school tutoring has not started yet, but I expect those to start the second semester. Those typically happen once a week for an hour.

  16. Are you compensated for any of your extra duties?

    For the first time in my 23 years of teaching, I am receiving a $1,000 stipend for being the team leader. I believe I will get this stipend in my May paycheck. On our campus, teachers typically do tutoring in the Spring semester one or two days a week, especially in the STAAR tested grades. Our campus is not a Title 1 campus, which means we do not receive extra federal funding for tutoring. Some years, our principal has funds to pay for tutoring and sometimes not.

  17. When was the last time you took a day off?

    Two weeks ago

  18. Describe the reason for your absence and the process you went through in order to take the day off.

    I took the day off to be with family. This was my first time to take off for this school year, so preparing my lesson plans took 3 hours. Creating the activity for my day off was not hard, although it does take time to provide for the substitute the different accommodations for different students in each class. Most of my time was spend putting my substitute folder together. This folder contains things like: nurse passes, medical alerts for students, class lists, seating charts, daily schedule, dismissal procedures, and my substitute attendance card. I also leave a letter for my substitue that lets them know the location of my phone and list of office extensions, student pass, and first aid kit.

  19. Describe a positive interaction you’ve had with a student this year.

    Honestly, I cannot pick out just one interaction. Our student group this year is empathetic, engaged, and for the most part ready to learn. Every day, I recieve thank yous and smiles. If I had to pick, I would say I feel good about the new student in my homeroom who was having stomach aches the first week of school due to nerves. That student’s mom told me during our fall conference that the stomach aches have disappeared and the mom only hears positive things about school. That makes me happy!

  20. Describe a challenging interaction you’ve had with a student this year.

    I have a student who is very kind and respectful until it is time to stop and listen to directions. That student might then look at me when I ask for attention, look away, and continue their conversation. This behavior does not disrupt the entire class, however it is hard for me to focus on what I am doing when this happens. I have talked with the student about this behavior, and they do not feel like it is happening, which makes it even harder to break the habit.

  21. Describe a positive interaction you’ve had with a parent this year.

    I am fortunate that most of my interactions with parents are positive. Most of them want to be involved, volunteer, and often ask how they can help me with anything needed in the classroom.

  22. Describe a challenging interaction you’ve had with a parent this year.

    I have a parent whose child receives accommodations for a learning disability. When these accommodations were created, the parent was present at the meeting. When I use the accommodations, the parent is not always happy about it. The parent does not want the accommodations changed, so I legally have to follow them. I am not quite sure where the disconnect is happening. Hopefully, communications with the parent throughout the year will help the parent understand how the accommodations are helping the student be successful.

  23. Describe a positive interaction you’ve had with a coworker or administrator this year.

    My principal has an open door policy. I love being able to approach her at any time to get help with an issue or to celebrate something positive that has happened in the classroom.

  24. Describe a challenging interaction you’ve had with a coworker or administrator this year.

    I was a rehire to the district after leaving during the pandemic. It took three weeks for human resources to get me back in the system. This meant I did not have access to a gradebook, files on my students (thankfully my team shared with me), or the ability to put in for a sub if needed. When I called to inquire about the situation, I was only able to receive voicemails, never an actual person.

  25. What’s the funniest or weirdest thing that’s happened at school this year?

    Okay, I’ve thought about this one for awhile. It’s been a pretty calm year so far. A few years ago, I was reading a situation to the students where a boy in the story had seven red balls. As I was casually reading, a boy student in my class shouted, “I thought there were only two!” It took everything in my power to not laugh out loud with the other boys snickering. I don’t know how I survived that moment.

  26. What time did you arrive at work today?

    Today is Sunday, so I’m at home. My usual time to arrive at work is 7:15am.

  27. What time did you leave work today? If you are still at work, what time did you leave yesterday?

    Friday, I left work at 4:45pm.

  28. Describe your lunch today. (Length, food, location, what you did while eating, etc.)

    The sit down part of my lunch lasts between 20 and 25 minutes. As an elementary teacher, I need to wait until the majority of my students have gone through the lunch line before I leave to eat my food. My lunch Friday was leftovers, a tomato based macaroni and beef soup. I ate lunch in the teacher’s lounge with two of my teammates.

  29. Describe one success you experienced today.

    My second class is my most challenging group. They are high energy but not necessarily energetic about doing work. I gave them a vocabulary choice board where they were asked to take a science concept or vocabulary word and write a poem, story, skit, or an interview that explained the concept or word. They LOVED it! I am going to spend time tomorrow watching the videos and reading the poems.

  30. Describe one challenge you experienced today.

    Well, it’s Sunday, so my biggest challenge was making sure everything was ready for next week: lessons, lunches, clothing picked out, and all errands done for the week. (Because I know I’m not doing any errands after school.)

  31. What time did you complete this survey?

    Sunday, 6:10 pm and three weeks after I started it. Sheesh!

  32. How satisfied are you with your current job? (1 = not at all satisfied, 5 = very satisfied)

    5

  33. As of right now, do you plan to continue teaching next year?

    Yes!

  34. What’s the best thing about being a teacher?

    I love, love being with my students, helping them reach their goals, and overcoming challenges. I also like brainstorming with my team about how to do things in the classroom.


    Teacher, I want to tell you something, and I want you to listen. You are amazing. You are creative and smart and hardworking and beautiful. You are valued by those who are paying attention, and you deserve so much more than you receive from society. You are a superhero, and the world is a better place with you in it. Thank you for everything you do for your students, your community, and your fellow teachers. I appreciate you. Now, close your eyes and take three long, deep breaths, then open your eyes.
  35. In no more than three words, describe how you feel right now.

    worried (1st nine weeks tests coming up), rushed, hungry

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Interview With a Teacher #6: Ms. C

Thank you, Ms. C, for participating in my interviews! It’s interesting to hear from someone who came to teaching from a different career path. I’m sorry you’re having such a rough year, but I appreciate all the time you’ve given to kids when you could have remained in a higher paying job. My heart is with you! ❤️

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A Note About These Interviews:

I taught seventh grade for almost twenty years and was constantly surprised at the difference between what friends, family, parents, neighbors, and community members imagined my job was like and what it actually was like. The few times I had the privilege of inviting a friend or family member to visit my classroom, they always left wide-eyed and exhausted. The purpose of these interviews is to allow the world a glimpse inside the lives of current educators. Now that I’ve quit teaching, I want to do what I can to support all the teachers still fighting the good fight, and I don’t want to forget what life is like inside a school.

All questions are optional. The teacher may write as much or as little as they want. If they don’t feel comfortable answering a question for any reason, they’re allowed to leave it blank or say “I prefer not to answer.” For confidentiality and privacy purposes, the name of the teacher’s school will not be published, and they may choose how they refer to themselves. (Full name, initials only, or even simply “Teacher.”) Participants have been asked to refrain from using student names or to change names. When describing student or parent interactions, they may be vague or change slight details to protect anonymity as long as the message/tone of the encounter stays the same.

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Interview With Ms. C:

A tombstone from my teacher cemetery last Halloween. It seemed appropriate for this post.
  1. In no more than three words, describe how you feel right now.

    exhausted, angry, sad

  2. What is today’s date?

    October 7, 2022

  3. How old are you?

    60

  4. How many years (total) have you been teaching?

    13

  5. Have you ever taken a break from teaching? If so, why and for how long?

    no

  6. What is your current salary?

    $58,106.04

  7. Is there anything you would like to share about your personal life or family situation?

    Teaching is my 2nd career. When I started teaching, my take home pay was 1/4 what I made previously. I chose to move to teaching. It wasn’t about the money.

  8. In what city and state do you teach?

    Austin, TX

  9. What grade(s) and subject(s) do you currently teach?

    7th grade math

  10. How many years have you been in your current teaching position?

    9

  11. How many conference periods do you have per day?

    2

  12. How many students do you teach total?

    165

  13. If you teach multiple classes, how many students are in your smallest class and your largest class?

    25 and 30

  14. On average, how many meetings do you have per week?

    2

  15. What other responsibilities do you have at school besides teaching your own classes? (For example: bus duty, cafeteria monitor, after school club, chaperone, committee member, team leader, coach, etc.)

    morning duty, kid day meetings

  16. Are you compensated for any of your extra duties?

    no

  17. When was the last time you took a day off?

    last school year

  18. Describe the reason for your absence and the process you went through in order to take the day off.

    submit for a sub and in the time system for a day off, write sub plans, check multiple times during the day with the sub

  19. Describe a positive interaction you’ve had with a student this year.

    so many, students are great…telling them that they are doing a great job is always fun

  20. Describe a challenging interaction you’ve had with a student this year.

    talking to a student who is failing because of missing work and that student doesn’t care

  21. Describe a positive interaction you’ve had with a parent this year.

    parents that appreciate what we do

  22. Describe a challenging interaction you’ve had with a parent this year.

    parent that was upset that another teacher recommended a student move to accelerated [different level of math] because the teacher didn’t like the student. The student couldn’t keep up. I got blamed for not “checking” the student should be in accelerated. I don’t have that option.

  23. Describe a positive interaction you’ve had with a coworker or administrator this year.

    Just making me laugh helps

  24. Describe a challenging interaction you’ve had with a coworker or administrator this year.

    When they dump all the resource [below grade level] kids into my class and expect me to be able to teach 30 students who range from resource to advanced.

  25. What’s the funniest or weirdest thing that’s happened at school this year?

    The student who told me everyone hates my haircut, but he likes it.

  26. What time did you arrive at work today?

    7:00 A.M.

  27. What time did you leave work today? If you are still at work, what time did you leave yesterday?

    4:45 P.M.

  28. Describe your lunch today. (Length, food, location, what you did while eating, etc.)

    30 minutes. I ate in my room. I entered late grades.

  29. Describe one success you experienced today.

    My classes were more focused than usual.

  30. Describe one challenge you experienced today.

    Getting students to quiet down and listen

  31. What time did you complete this survey?

    7:00 P.M.

  32. How satisfied are you with your current job? (1 = not at all satisfied, 5 = very satisfied)

    1

  33. As of right now, do you plan to continue teaching next year?

    no

  34. What’s the best thing about being a teacher?

    the kids….they give me hope for the future and make me laugh


    Teacher, I want to tell you something, and I want you to listen. You are amazing. You are creative and smart and hardworking and beautiful. You are valued by those who are paying attention, and you deserve so much more than you receive from society. You are a superhero, and the world is a better place with you in it. Thank you for everything you do for your students, your community, and your fellow teachers. I appreciate you. Now, close your eyes and take three long, deep breaths, then open your eyes.

  35. In no more than three words, describe how you feel right now.

    exhausted, unappreciated, angry

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